The Truth Behind Break-Ups
Have you ever thought about that? Why do men get dumped by women? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. You were so good to her it almost seemed like you worshiped her, so you’ll have no idea why.
Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she′ll wonder what’s wrong with you.
Are all women that way? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But many females think that things are always better elsewhere. They would be better off with the person coming in the near future.
So, what do you do when a woman breaks up with you for seemingly no reason at all? The first thing you WON’T do is call her, text her or go visit her. She evidently took you for granted while you were together so let her have some time to miss you.
Try not to act like you’re devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.
The reality check is deciding whether or not you can handle a relationship full of her insecurities. Think about it? Is she really worth it? You have to give your beloved the the freedom, the space and time to widen her horizons on her own. It is very possible to mend a relationship if the trust is present.
If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.
Basically, she’s going to have to earn the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover. Let HER chase you, not the other way around. And if you finally let her catch you, hold a little of yourself back for a while. Remember, she’s not sure what to do if you’re really nice, so don’t give so much.
Am I telling you to treat her inappropriately? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. These are the steps to save your relationship, if that is what you are really looking for.
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